#1 is what is intimacy and how do you see it in your life.
#2 who do you feel most intimate with
#3 are you intimate with your friends?
#4 what is your wish surrounding intimacy
1.
When I hear the word “intimacy” I think of a lot
of things. I think of boyfriends and girlfriends, sex, and like romantic stuff.
But I guess it really means being your true self around someone and being
accepted for who you are. I’ve never reallyhad a boyfriend/girlfriend and
experienced THAT kind of intimacy, but I do have a good amount of people who I
am able to be my complete self around. It plays a pretty big role because I’m
not going to take/share information with someone I’m not close to.
2.
I think that before I came here I was at a
pretty gratifiying spot in intimacy with others. Like Sackett, some other
friends and my younger sister, Sammy. Mostly I would talk face to face with them,
but I also talked to them over facebook and texting. I felt my complete self
around Kassie, Sammy, and Sackett. I would also spend time at their house or
they would come to my house.
3.
Well I mean being able to be completely
comfortable with my close friends. I don’t really fantasize at all about it,
because that’s really creepy.
4.
Well, I wish I could be more intimate with my
parents but I honestly don’t know what it would take to have my wishes come
true. Maybe just them understanding me more and trying to support me instead of
saying they don’t want me to come home because they don’t think I’m getting
better.
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Intimacy is being able to be your true self around someone.
Intimacy is being able to spend joyous moments together
Intimacy is going on dates, holding hands, undoubted love
Intimacy is sharing your deepest secrets without being
judged
Intimacy is being held when you’re on the bathroom floor
Intimacy is loving someone despite their flaws and accepting
them for who they are
I would say, at the moment, I am most intimate with one of
my friends back at school. She is such a great person, who has seen me at my
lowest and metaphorically held my hand through it all. She has also seen me at
my best and she has nothing but love for me.
I’m not really that intimate with anyone else, besides my younger
sister is always on the list haha because she will always be my best friend…
Sammy has one of the purest hearts of someone I know. She will push her
problems to the side, and will hold people’s hands through their problems. She
puts others in front of herself. Our relationship is great! We can tell each
other anything. Just today, she called me and was SO excited that she worked
for the academic letter and excellence medal. I could not be more proud!
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